love problem

[sourour]

we loved eacth other for 2 years and we brock up for no serious reason i still love him but i dont know if he do and i can't be honest with him because he will think that i run after him

[majdi]

لم تذكري السبب الذي جعلكم تنهون العلاقة ، ولكن يمكنكم ان تعودو وتتصالحو فالحب الحقيقي يحتاج الا تنازل من الطرفين ، تحدث الكثير من الخلافات والعتابات بين الأحباب ولكن في النهاية الحب يبقى هذا اذا كان حقيقي ومتبادل بين الطرفين بشكل متساوي .

اذا كنتي تريدين أن تعرفي ماذا تعنين له الآن ، أمامكي طريقة واحدة وهي ان ترسلي شخص تثقين به ويكون على معرفة معه ويحاول بطريقة غير مباشرة أن يناقشه في قصتكم ويعرف الحقيقة .

اذا وصلكي انه يحبك ويريد ان يعود اليكي فانصحكي ان تبادري اليه وتحاولين لقائه وتتصالحين معه وتعود علاقتكم .

اما اذا وصلكي رد غير ايجابي ( لاسمح الله ) فانصحكي في هذه الحالة ان تحاولي ان تنسيه وتنتظرين نصيبك .

وبشكل عام رأيي الشخصي أنا في هذه الحالة أن علاقات الحب اذا دخل فيها مشاكل وشكوك بين الطرفين فمن الصعب أن تعود كما كانت لأنه الطرفين سيتوقعون أن أحد منهم سينهي العلاقة مرة أخرى ، أي تنعدم المصداقية وستعيشون جو الحذر من بعضكم الا في حالة واحدة اذا عدتم بارتباط رسمي ( خطوبة أو زواج ).

[sourour]

first i just want to thank you about the soliution you sended to me it's was helpful i just want to tell you more :
that we broke up because he treat me as his wife and there was nothing but love relation between us and ask me in bad way to stop alot of stuff and thing that i use to do and i accepted that but 1 day i did something unload to do so he end our relation and i did say sorry alot of times but he didn't accepted any way u told me to send a person who a trust and know how he feels ...dear,he is refusing to show me how he feels so it's hard almost impossible to let other poeple know his feeling and i told you that he is he want to show me that he is strong and nothing can break his heart and that's why i'am confuse i dont know if he steel love me and there is no way to know !!! and if i want to forget him plz tell me how he is my first love and i feel that i will be soooooo despert without him ! help me plz and thanks for giving me ur time in reading my problemes !!
salam alaykoum

[majdi]

it is not impossible to know how he feels now toward you .

all what you need is a trick can get you his feelings , you may try another way to send him any of you friends ( girl ) to try with his a love game even if thru chat or emails. or you try to play it with him thru chat.

to forget him its actully hard , this is life , to build is hard but to destroy is very easy and we go thru a hard sadness.

if you want to forget him all what you need to think of is thats if you lost him or you win his love the life must go in sadness or happiness so lets it in happiness and to search for who really care , who really respect , why should i constraint myself in certain one ? i should think that the one who will give me what i need is the right one ...

there is alot of nice guys , and iam sure you will find a better one who will give you all ur needs.

i had alot of experiance in love with girls i lost befor 3 girls and every time i lose one i go very sad ( cant sleep , cant eat , ...etc ) why ?? in fact its wrong ...

we should look at it in different way ... who want me i want him/her ... who not iam not .... i need who love and respect me not who ask me for things i dont like or who make me feeling bad ...

i wish you the best

Regards

Majdi