طلب مساعدة

[jamesbond]

السلام عليكم تحية طيبة وبعد: انا اريد المساعدة عندي مشكلة في بناء مستقنلي بسبب ظروف صعبة جدا لم استطع التغلب عليها ومنها مشاكل عائلية وظروف مادية واجتماعية صعبة ... ارجوا افادتي ومساعدتي مع الشكر :D

[majdi]

المستقبل أمر يشغل بال الكثير من الشباب، والجميع يتطلع إلى مستقبل مليء بالأمل يستطيع أن يحقق ما يسعى إليه من نجاح، ولكن لا بد من معرفة بعض الأمور التي تساعد الشاب على بناء مستقبله وتحقيق أمانيه.

وأول هذه الأمور ضرورة الوعي بالمستقبل وفهم تحدياته ومعرفة المقومات الحقيقية لصناعة النجاح، سواء على الصعيد الشخصي أو على الصعيد الاجتماعي، فلا يمكن لأحد أن يحقق النجاح إذا لم يكن عنده رؤية واضحة تجاه المستقبل.

ولبناء المستقبل لا بد أن تتعامل مع الحاضر بما يؤهلك لتحقيق ما تسعى إليه في المستقبل، إذ أن المستقبل الطيب لا يأتي فجأة، بل لا بد له من إعداد مستمر ومراقبة الفرص واغتنامها والبحث عنها والتفكير القوي بكيفية الوصول اليها وأيضا التهيأ لها ، وكلا الحاضر والمستقبل مرتبطان ببعضهما، فمن لا يملك وعيا بالمستقبل وما يريد أن يحققه فيه لا يمكن أن يفعل شيئا في الحاضر، بل يضيع وقته ويخبط خبط عشواء دون هدف واضح .

إن من المهم للغاية أن ندرك إن الحاضر الآن سيصبح بعد قليل زمنا ماضيا، وأن المستقبل سيحل محله ليصبح هو الحاضر، وإدراك هذه الحقيقة يدعو إلى الاهتمام بالحاضر بما يكون في ذاته أساسا للمستقبل، ولنحذر من التعامل مع الحاضر بعقلية الماضي، أو بالعيش في الأماني، أو بإضاعة الفرص على أمل أن تكون هناك فرص أفضل وأحسن، فإن كل ذلك مما يهدم الحاضر ويضيع المستقبل.

[Hazeen]

لك اخي الكريم انا متلك مشاكل عائلية عندي قد الني اهلي هلكوني روح اشتغل روح اعمل روح اترك وما بعرف شو هلكت من اهلي اصحابي شغلي ما معي مادي عمري 25 سنة ما بملك حق علبة دخان ناطر حتى الله يفرجها علي وتجيني شي سفرة اطلع برا اشتغل لك اخي مرق علي وقت يأست كتير وحاولت انتحر شربت علبتين دوا منوم ومرقت على خير هددت اهلي بعدت عن اصحابي لك اخي انا هلة عايش لراسي لك مان عيش كل يوم بيومو ما تسأل شو في بكرة بس ييجي بكرة بتفكر ريح راسك حتى الله يفرجها عليك عيشششششششششش يمكن في ناس بتقلي انا غلطان بهالكلام بس انا مقتنع فيه حاولت كتير وما في فايدة وانا هلة عايش لراسي ما بقى بدي حدا اكتر من هيك ما بقلك اخوك الحزين باي باي والله يوفقك :wink: 8)

[jean]

اسهل شيء في الحياة بناء المستقبل
وذلك من خلال العمل الدؤب الاتكال على الله شيء عظيم
ولكن علىقول الله العظيم قم لاقف معك
اي لاتصيبك حالة احباط وتجلس في البيت وتنتظر ان ياتيك
المستقبل على صحن من فضه
اخي العزيز تعلم من المطبات وحولها لصالحك

[Some Body]

Have you read this before ؟

Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations). What is this principle?

10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean?

We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.

How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light. However, you can control your reaction. Do not let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.

Let us use an example: You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened. What happens next will be determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.

She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work.

You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit zone. After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye.
After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started te rrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.

Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have a bad day?

A. Did the coffee cause it?
B. Did your daughter cause it?
C. Did the policeman cause it?
D. Did you cause it?

The answer is "D".

You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened.

Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its ok honey, you just need to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel, you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minute s early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.

Notice the difference?

Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.

Why? Because of how you REACTED.

You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.

If someone says something negative about you, do not be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You do not have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic?

* Do you lose your temper?
* Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall Off)
* Do you curse?
* Does your blood pressure skyrocket?
* Do yo u try to bump them?

WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive. Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.

You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.

The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger.

Why are stressed out? It will just make things worse. Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it.

The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.

The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache.

We all must understand and apply the 9 0/10 principle.

It CAN change your life!


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